Who We Are
Partnering to build a world where the best interests of children are upheld through equal shared parenting.
Every child thrives when they are loved, guided, protected, and supported by both parents. At Put Children First, we believe that a child’s identity, confidence, and emotional security are strengthened when mothers and fathers remain actively involved in their lives. Both parents are not optional. They are essential. Together, they form the foundation upon which children grow, heal, and flourish.
When families experience separation or transition, children should never be the ones to bear the loss. Put Children First exists to ensure that decisions made during these moments remain centered on the child’s best interests. We advocate for shared parenting, cooperation, and child-centered solutions that preserve meaningful relationships with both parents.
What We Do
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— Child-Centered Approach
Ensuring that decisions regarding custody, visitation, and parenting arrangements are made with the best interests of the children at the forefront supported by equal shared parenting.
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— Cooperative Co-Parenting
Encouraging parents to work together in a cooperative and respectful manner, putting aside personal conflicts and disagreements for the sake of their children.
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— Emotional Support
Providing children with the emotional support and stability they need to navigate the challenges of family transition with resilience and strength.
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— Education and Awareness
Promoting education and awareness about the impact of separation and divorce on children, and providing resources and support for parents to help them prioritize their children’s needs.
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— Advocacy
Advocating for policies and practices that prioritize children’s well-being during family transitions through Equal Shared Parenting, and working towards creating a legal and societal framework that supports children and families.
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Early Intervention and Community Support
Providing timely support, community workshops, and referrals that help families manage conflict and emotional challenges early, connect to appropriate counseling and mediation, and protect children’s well being through shared parenting.
Impact Stories
A Mother’s Regret and a Child’s Silent Pain
Peaches’ Story
“After separation, I believed limiting their father’s involvement was protecting my children. Over time, I saw the emotional toll it took on them. They became anxious, withdrawn, and struggled with their sense of identity. Through the support and education I received at Put Children First, I came to understand how deeply children need both parents. Rebuilding shared parenting was not easy, but restoring their relationship with their father brought healing, stability, and emotional relief. I learned that protecting children does not mean removing a parent. It means helping both parents show up in healthy and supportive ways.”
Taking responsibility for a child's trauma
Dina’s Story
“I take full responsibility for restricting my child’s relationship with their other parent. At the time, I believed I was acting in their best interest, but I now see the consequences of that decision. Over the years, my child’s behavior became increasingly troubled, marked by anger, defiance, and emotional instability. Eventually, those unresolved issues contributed to my child becoming involved with the juvenile justice system. Through my journey with Put Children First, I came to understand how deeply the absence of a parent can affect a child’s emotional regulation, identity, and choices. I now believe that denying a child access to a loving parent does not protect them. It leaves a void. My experience has taught me that shared parenting and early support are critical to preventing long term harm.”
Partners
